Enjoying more snuggle time than ever in bed these days? Is he all too happy to have you in his arms while you talk about your day? It’s great….for a while…until a month goes by and you’re stuck wondering what happened to his libido!
Let me ask you another question, is he feeling more like a cuddly teddy bear than every before? If the answer is yes, you’ve found his libido…in his extra cuddly pounds and expanded waist.
That’s right, his libido is in his fat cells. Those fat cells are converting his testosterone to estrogen. Though estrogen is commonly associated with women, men have estrogen too. As they age, their testosterone levels naturally begin to decrease and estrogen levels increase causing a vicious cycle of weight gain leading to higher estrogen levels causing more weight gain, loss of libido and erectile dysfunction.
Because testosterone is converted to estrogen in fat cells during what’s called aromatase reaction, the best defense against this is to get moving and burn as many fat cells as possible. Reducing alcohol consumption is also highly advised as are taking vitamin B and flaxseed.
So before you go to the Dr. and start talking about “a friend” whose husband can’t get it up, can’t keep it up and can’t talk about it, get him off the couch and get him active. Do it together and he’ll see where your libido’s been hiding too!


